In Tactics Greg Koukl gives Christians more how than what/why in defending the Biblical faith. It is an outstanding read that I recommend to all Christians (young or old). You can read my full book review by clicking here. Below are just a few of the quotes I highlighted in this empowering book.
āFirst, Christās ambassadors need the basic knowledge necessary for the task. They must know the central message of Godās kingdom and something about how to respond to the obstacles theyāll encounter on their diplomatic mission. … However, it is not enough for followers of Jesus to have an accurately informed mind. Our knowledge must be tempered with the kind of wisdom that makes our message clear and persuasive. This requires the tools of a diplomat, not the weapons of a warrior, tactical skill rather than brute force. Finally, our character can make or break our mission. Knowledge and wisdom are packaged in a person, so to speak. If that person does not embody the virtues of the kingdom he serves, he will undermine his message and handicap his efforts.āĀ
āThe tactical approach requires as much careful listening as thoughtful response.ā
āIt is not the Christian life to wound, embarrass, or play one-upmanship with colleagues, friends, or even opponents, but itās a common vice that anyone can easily fall into.ā ā Hugh HewittĀ
āAlways make it a goal to keep your conversations cordial. Sometimes that will not be possible. If a principled, charitable expression of your ideas makes someone mad, thereās little you can do about it. Jesusā teaching made some people furious. Just make sure itās your ideas that offend and not you, that your beliefs cause the dispute and not your behavior.ā
āThe ability to argue well is vital for clear thinking. Thatās why arguments are good things. Arguing is a virtue because it helps us determine what is true and discard what is false. … Paul warns against wrangling about words and quarreling about foolish speculations (2 Timothy 2:14, 23). But he also commands us to be diligent workmen, handling the word of truth accurately (2 Timothy 2:15). And, because some disputes are vitally important, Paul solemnly charges us to reprove, rebuke, and exhort when necessary (2 Timothy 4:112). This cannot be done without some confrontation, but disagreement need not threaten genuine unity.ā
āIf you want skeptics to believe in the Bible, donāt get into a tug-of-war with them about inspiration. Instead, invite them to listenāto engage Jesusā words firsthandāthen let the Spirit do the heavy lifting for you.ā
āYou have to know why Jesus is the only way before it is helpful to tell people that He is the only way.āĀ
āThere are three specific things you can do to āreadyā yourself to respond. You can anticipate beforehand what might come up. You can reflect afterward on what took place. And in both cases you can practice the responses you think of during these reflective moments so you will be prepared for the next opportunity.ā
āKnowing when to step back requires the ability to separate the hogs and the dogs from the lost sheep looking for a shepherd. But how do you know when someone has crossed the line? When do we have an obligation to speak, and when should we save our pearls for another time? Part of the answer can be found in Jesusā next words in Matthew 7:6: ā…lest they trample [the pearls] under their feet, and turn and tear you to pieces.ā Be generous with the truth except with someone who shows utter contempt for the precious gift being offered him. He will simply trample it in the mud and then viciously turn on you. … There is an exception to this principle, however. I have learned from my radio show that sometimes my real audience is not the person Iām talking to, but the people who are listening in, eavesdropping on the conversation. … Lee Strobel calls this āricochet evangelism.āāĀ
āWhen I face an aggressive challenger, I often give him the last word. Not only is this gracious, itās also powerful, conveying a deep sense of confidence in oneās own view. Instead of fighting for the final say-so, give it away. Make your concluding point clearly and succinctly, and then say, āIāll let you have the last word.ā But donāt break this promise. Grant him his parting shot, and then let it rest.ā
āKnow the truth. Know your Bible well enough to give an accurate answer. Tactics are not a substitute for knowledge. Cleverness without truth is manipulation.ā
āCulture is most profoundly changed not by the efforts of huge institutions, but by individual people.ā āChuck Colson