Craig T. Owens

[Each chapter in the Book of Proverbs contains thoughts that fit into a theme; they are not just random thoughts gathered together. In this “Saturday In The Proverbs” series, I will share a theme that I see in each chapter. But the cool thing about God’s Word is that you may see an entirely different theme. That’s great! If you do, I would love for you to share it in the comments below.]

Do not boast… (Proverbs 27:1).

This proverbs has some noteworthy relationship builders and relationship killers. 

Relationship Builders

• Humility (v. 2) 
• Confronting in love (vv. 5a, 6a)
• Contentment (v. 7)
• Minding your own business (v. 8)
• Giving good advice (v. 9)
• Investing in family friendships (v. 10)
• Exercising wisdom (v. 11)
• Using foresight (v. 12a)
• Investing in yourself so that you can invest in others (v. 17)
• Serving others (v. 18)
• Honest self-assessment (v. 19)
• Good work ethic (vv. 23-27) 

Relationship Killers

• Boasting (vv. 1, 2)
• Provoking a foolish argument (v. 3)
• Jealousy (v. 4)
• Unexpressed love (v. 5b)
• Insincere flattery (vv. 6b, 14)
• Ignoring the signs of impending trouble (v. 12b)
• Cosigning a loan (v. 13)
• Arguing (vv. 15, 16)
• Envy (v. 20)
• Not handling praise humbly (v. 21) 
• Not listening to correction (v. 22)

To keep our relationships strong and vibrant, let’s kill the killers and build the builders!