He was ripped and he was handsome. She was lonely and she was hungry. He followed God and she gave lip-service to the numerous gods of Egypt. He was Joseph and she was Potiphar’s wife. He was in charge of all of Potiphar’s household and she was attracted to that power.
A pretty heady place for Joseph to be. Think about it, guys, how would you feel? You’re good looking, successful, and the object of some babe’s desire. What are you going to do with all of that?
Do you know what Joseph did? He ignored her to the point of almost being rude:
And though she spoke to Joseph day after day, he refused to go to bed with her or even be with her.
Or even be with her is a rude phrase. It means she was doing everything she could think of to bring him to her, and he was thwarting her at every turn:
- She walked into a room; he walked out.
- She planned her path to run into him; he went out of his way to change his route.
- She smiled; he kept straight-faced.
- She flirted; he ignored her.
- She was persistent; he was consistent.
There are many temptations the Bible tells us to fight. But there are two that we’re advised to flee: idolatry and sexual immorality.
Joseph chose fleeing over fighting.
Solomon said, “When you know what that sort of woman is up to, don’t even walk down her street.”
Talk to Wisdom as to a sister. Treat Insight as your companion. They’ll be with you to fend off the Temptress—that smooth-talking, honey-tongued Seductress.
Jesus said, “Don’t even entertain any thoughts about that kind of woman.”
From this type of temptation, your best fight is flight.
Guys, be like Joseph: stay away, take a different path, don’t smile at the flirty jokes, don’t hang out at her desk, don’t treat her politely. RUN AWAY.
Flight is your best fight against sexual temptation.