The Craig And Greg Show: Control Your Reaction

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As a leader, you have the great responsibility, and privilege, of setting the tone for your team. One of the biggest ways you set the tone for your organization is how you react to stressful situations. Remaining calm through adversity signals to your team that they can remain calm as well, and provides amazing stability to your organization. In this episode, Greg and I discuss this topic and give helpful tips that will enable you to better control your reactions.

  • [0:30] When the going gets tough, the tough get going. But what do leaders do during tough times?
  • [2:51] When a leader panics, the team cannot be calm.
  • [3:24] Greg has a great analogy for the world of nature that can help leaders.
  • [5:08] What happens if a leader’s anger erupts?
  • [7:53] Our teammates watch our responses closely in tense times and in our reflection times after the intense activity.
  • [10:15] Leaders have to learn how to control the emotional extremes.
  • [12:35] Insecure leaders tend to react a little too intensely, and their teams will learn to follow their example.
  • [13:28] Both pre-planning and reflection will help leaders avoid an over-the-top reaction.
  • [18:04] Reactions that are too quick usually create additional problems. Thoughtful responses are always healthier.
  • [20:22] Macro and micro situations require different responses from leaders, so leaders need to learn to quickly assess the situation.
  • [23:00] I suggest the most important thing for leaders to work on to avoid overreactions.
  • [25:16] Greg shares a quote with his own helpful modification.

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Poetry Saturday—God, Thou Art Love

If I forget,
Yet God remembers! If these hands of mine
Cease from their clinging, yet the hands divine
Hold me so firmly that I cannot fall;
And if sometimes I am too tired to call
For Him to help me, then He reads the prayer 
Unspoken in my heart, and lifts my care.

I dare not fear, since certainly I know
That I am in God’s keeping, shielded so 
From all that else would harm, and in His power;
I tread no path in life to Him unknown;
Lift no burden, bear no pain, alone.
My soul a calm, sure hiding place has found:
The arms my life surround.

God, Thou art love! I build my faith on that.
I know Thee who has kept my path and made
Light for me in the darkness, tempering sorrow
So that it reached me like a solemn joy;
It were too strange that I should doubt Thy love. —Robert Browning