My Grandfather used to say, “Give me my flowers while I’m still alive.” I think this was his way of restating the cliché, “Dead noses smell no roses.” It’s true: flowers at a gravesite—no matter how beautiful they are—aren’t appreciated by dead noses. Kind and loving words spoken at a funeral—no matter how eloquent they are—aren’t appreciated by dead ears.
The point is: today is special. Today is one-of-a-kind. Today is the best day to tell someone dear to you how truly special they are. Today may be the last day you have to make something right. Today is the day to send those flowers. Don’t put it off until tomorrow.
How many people live with regrets today because of the things they didn’t say before a loved one passed away from this life? How many people feel guilty today because they didn’t make things right in a strained relationship? How much better to live today knowing that we said and did all of the things we could to express our love, to show how valuable the relationship was.
Job said, “My days are swifter than a runner” (Job 9:25).
His friend Bildad agreed that, “Our days on earth are but a shadow” (Job 8:9).
And James wrote, “Your life is like the morning fog—it’s here a little while, then it’s gone” (James 4:14).
We never know how much time is left to send those flowers.
- Make that phone call.
- Ask forgiveness.
- Write that letter.
- Go to lunch.
- Say, “I love you.”
- Send those flowers.
Don’t live your tomorrows with regrets for the things unsaid or undone—say them and do them today.