My favorite Father’s Day gifts are the homemade, personalized cards that my children make for me. Throughout the years I’ve kept a number of those close to me as bookmarkers or framed reminders on my desk. To me homemade = heartmade.
Yesterday one of my children gave me a card which had this heart-tugging line: “I love you so very because you love me.” And then there was this P.S.: “Don’t stop loving.”
On Father’s Day or Mother’s Day or birthdays, it seems easy to express our love. After a hospital stay or a near-death experience, it seems required to express our love. And that’s as it should be. But what about all the “normal” days in between?
I believe one of the greatest gifts I can give my family is a personalized, “heartmade” gift that tells the recipient that I’m thinking about them. In other words, I need to be actively and deliberately finding ways to express my heartmade love to those close to me every day.
Of the 86,400 seconds I have today, it will only take me a few seconds to:
- Text “I love you”
- Give a gentle squeeze or love pat as they walk by
- Jot a quick note to pack in someone’s lunch
- Buy their favorite candy as I’m checking out of the store
- Stick a friendly Post-It note message to their bathroom mirror
- Start or end their day with a hug
As Gertrude Stein wrote, “Silent gratitude isn’t very much use to anyone.”
Don’t make those close to you GUESS you love them, make sure they KNOW you love them. It only takes a second or two.
How will you use your 86,400 seconds today?